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Stress (Opens in new tab) is a common and normal response to challenging or new situations. Stress has both mental and physical aspects. When you are stressed, your body releases stress hormones (Opens in new tab) such as adrenaline (Opens in new tab). This brings on physical changes in your body, which help you respond to the stressful situation.
Stress becomes a chronic condition when it compromises quality of life and creates limitations, or if you feel overwhelmed and unable to cope. When this happens, it is important to take steps to manage your stress (Opens in new tab) to ensure that you can function well and look after your health and your baby's health.
For some people, finding out that they are pregnant can be a stressful experience. You might feel like you have lost control or don't have enough resources to manage what you'll be experiencing.
Stress can come from:
Your situation at home may cause you stress, such as:
Emotions such as grief (Opens in new tab), past anxiety, depression or other mental illness (Opens in new tab), can cause more stress during pregnancy, as can drug (Opens in new tab) and alcohol problems.
If more than one of these events happen to you at the same time, you could experience even more stress.
Chronic (ongoing) stress can affect your health or wellbeing, and can cause headaches and problems sleeping.
Some people might also experience:
Chronic stress could also cause problems for your baby. If stress is not managed well, there may be effects on your unborn baby's growth and the length of your pregnancy (gestation). The risk of problems in your baby's future physical and mental development may also increase, as well as behavioural issues in childhood.
The point where stress becomes a problem is different for everyone — it varies from person to person. If you are concerned or unsure that stress is the problem, it is important to seek help and advice with a health professional. You might also look out for clues, such as:
During pregnancy, it's important to look after your mental wellbeing as much as your physical health. When you feel well, content and relaxed, you are better at managing stress.
To reduce stress, you could try the following:
Physical activity and relaxation can also help to reduce stress:
You don't have to cope alone. Ask for help when you need it and accept offers to help you.
If you have tried relaxation techniques and reaching out to someone you trust, but still feel overwhelmed, check in with your doctor, your midwife or a mental health professional (Opens in new tab). Be sure to attend all your regular antenatal health appointments — let your care provider know if you're feeling stressed (Opens in new tab). You can also call a mental health helpline (Opens in new tab) for support.
Stress is not a diagnosis but a sign that something else is going on. Chronic stress could indicate depression, anxiety or another mental health condition (Opens in new tab). GPs and psychologists (Opens in new tab) can recognise when stress means you need extra support, so don't hesitate to reach out for advice.
If you need more help to manage your stress, you can contact:
Here are some other things to try:

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Last reviewed: August 2024









